The Spirit Lamp for our new House |
Once we understand that humanity is not the only intelligent life on the planet it is easier to intuit the life in other forms around us. All forms have life and all manifest an Idea - a thought form - which lies at the back of their material structure.
Gardeners are used to relating to plants in this way. They see a tree living its life through the wheel of the year from a dormant winter frame to a form resplendent with fruit in late summer. They also see that same tree supporting other life while it lives - birds, insects, animals and people. A house is very much like a tree. It too has a life, supports life, and so adds its particular quality to the activity carried on within and around it.
This week I am settling in to my new home and establishing a framework for the activity of the household. While sorting out belongings and getting to know the space better is an important part of the process, there are other things going on. I am establishing a relationship with the place.
This house, and the land it sits on, is new to me. Like any new acquaintance, it will reveal its personality to me if I pay attention. In order to understand I am required to listen as I explore the possibilities here. By merging my own life with this house, in an attitude of respect and commitment, I am asking to establish an intimate connection with the spirit of the place. Together with other occupants, seen and unseen, I am creating a Home in which all who cross the threshold will feel they Belong.
This opportunity is open to everyone and all of us instinctively seek that sense of belonging we call Home. The problem for many is the way our lifestyle and upbringing has served to disconnect us from the very means of finding that sense of place.
If we rush our attention is scattered and we cannot relate to any one. So the first step is to Slow Down.
Our second step on the Path Home is to take the opportunity to be in a park, or to notice street trees and urban birds - the creatures who live around us. Seek out these other lives and appreciate their presence. If we have no access to growing things, no place for a potted plant even, we lose our connection to the cycles of the seasons, to the source of the life force which sustains our bodies. We also disconnect ourselves from the spirit of Life itself.
The third step Home is to establish a rhythmic pattern to our day. When our world is filled with light and sound, both day and night, we miss the opportunity to pace our lives in tune with the rest of Life. We are unsettled then, and rootless.
No two people have the same requirements, so this too requires us to stop and to listen within. What meal times and waking hours support your life best?
What foods and activities enhance a sense of health and pleasure in life? What balance of work, play and rest meets your needs best?
The fourth and final step is to keep the mind as quiet as possible. Constant inner dialogue and noise drowns out the inner voice and closes down intuition.
No relationship can survive without clear communication. To develop a sound relationship with your Self, with the Soul and with all life we must learn to be still and to listen. In that stillness we get our sense of Home.
There a lantern shines at the window and we feel the warmth of the Hearth.
From the place of that peace we relate easily and effortlessly, knowing we are alive - that we Belong.